Even the most confident of individuals would tend to feel nervous and apprehensive about certain facts when they have first time sex with someone. They would usually have a long list of questions and worries that would keep on nagging their minds till the end. And this could possibly affect their performance during intercourse.
So if you are one of those individuals who always seem to end up worrying about one thing or the other during sex, here are 6 factors that you can remove from the list, probably because they are not that important when it comes to enjoying sex with your partner.
6 Things Men Can Stop Worrying About in Bed
Switching Off the Lights
If you can arouse your partner and make her enjoy sex, then she probably won’t be concerned about the lights at all. So ensure that your partner is happy with you in bed and share her happiness. This way, you needn’t worry about getting out of bed in the middle of a steamy session to switch off the lights.
Of course that does not mean you need to end up like a street monger when you are in bed with your loved one. Even though she would not force you to take a bath, wear clean clothes or even shave for that matter, she would definitely expect some amount of cleanliness in the concerned areas.
So make it a point to cleanse your body (especially the main parts) properly before sex. Apply some deodorant to chase away body odor before you get into bed with partner. This would save you the embarrassment of having to jump out of bed and rushing to the bathroom to do some last minute cleaning.
Possible Side Effects Of The Pills You Took Just Before Sex
If you are apprehensive about taking pills before sex, don’t do it. This would prevent you from thinking about the possible side effects of the pills all through the act, thereby making it less pleasurable for yourself and your partner.
If you do want to opt for pills, then stop worrying about their side effects and enjoy the purpose for which you took them. Worry about everything afterwards. Even if the pills cause side effects, you probably won’t start to experience them at least for a couple of hours after having sex. So stop fretting and start enjoying!
What if The Condom Breaks?
This can be a real worry especially if you do not want a child or if you are wary of sexually transmitted disease. The worry of the condom breaking in between the act can put you off instantly in addition to hindering your partner’s chances of climaxing properly.
In order to avoid this unpleasant scenario, opt for good quality condoms and choose the right sized ones. This way, you don’t need to worry about your condom breaking during intercourse. And this in turn would prevent you from checking it every other minute during sex.
Fancy Sex Positions
Every other man out there would want his woman to feel happy during sex. And he would most probably worry about his partner getting bored with the same sex positions with time. This in turn could hinder his pleasure and performance during sex.
If you keep getting this thought in your head every time you have sex, then try different sex positions with your partner. Opt for positions that would let her enjoy the act wholesomely. But discuss each and every position with her first lest you end up trying something that she dislikes. Worse, you may choose a position that could possibly cause injuries if not done properly.
Sleeping After Sex
Most women expect their partner to remain awake after sex and cuddle up to them. Sadly, not many men would be able to do this (they would be too tired after climaxing). So rather than worrying about your partner’s thoughts about you going to sleep right after sex, satisfy her to the core during intercourse. This way, she would feel tired after the act and sleep as well.