When it comes to long term relationship, many women feel that they are with the wrong person as the passion declines and sex life seems to lose its lustre. Though it requires some time and hard work to restore the lost passion, but it cannot bring back the same feeling you had in the beginning.
Your daily labour can also be a potent cause for the lacklustre. However, there are several other psychological factors like anxiety, stress or depression. Nature is also responsible for the derailment of sexual interest. We should always try to move to a better stage instead to dreaming about a persistent infatuation.
The sexual urge will certainly be stronger in the attachment stage as compared to the infatuation stage. The attachment stage is sweet as well as calm and is often confused with the infatuation phase. However, in this post we are going to discuss a few tips to make the attachment stage more functional and interesting.
How To Kick-start Your Love Life
Spend some valuable time with your partner where you should not discuss about your daily problems.
Take some time out of your daily schedule to restore the old passion by discussing something that does not involve work or kids.
Go out on weekly dates. Your date must comprise of candle light dinner and walking back home. Try to incorporate things that involve looking at each other and do not include movies as it diverts your attention to somewhere else other than your partner.
Babysitters and dates can be expensive. When your kids go to sleep, sit on the porch and share a glass of wine with your partner.
There are many exciting and interesting physical activities that you can perform together to increase the bonding.
A recent study revealed that a few couples who were having these issues showed huge improvement in sexual interest, intimacy and connection when they were introduced to white water rafting, bungee jumping and other activities.
Spend some time with yourself. 10 to 15 minutes of meditation or break from jobs and kids are enough to decrease the stress and reserve adequate energy for your partner. It is really hard to go for such physical activities if you are ignoring your own life. Both the partners have to make a commitment otherwise one will be connected while the other will be lost in the regular grind. If you are yourself lost, how can you help your partner?
Meditate, take a hot water bath and exercise at least two afternoons per week while you let your partner take your kids out.
Dress up properly and present the keys of a hotel room to your partner.
No Sex Rule
Try to be physical, but keep sex out of your mind. Instead of having sex, touch one another, cuddle and hold each other’s hands to make this session last longer.
Learn and try different sexual positions.
There are some things in life that you have always wanted, but they got overshadowed by daily grinds. Take up those hobbies to lower your stress level.